Maggie Mayhem

I fellated high heel shoes for Queer Porn TV and I loved it.

Location: Oakland, CA
Identities: Radical, queer, sapiosexual, whore.
What makes you queer? Queer is a great word because it’s less about who you’re actually fucking and more about your politics. Queer is an anti-assimilationist term for me. It means that whatever I am and whoever I screw I think that the heterosexist and cissexist model we have for society is wrong because we have objective medical evidence to demonstrate that it does not reflect the human experience on earth. I think that oppressing people because you can’t even imagine what it’s like to be in their shoes is irrational, not speaking out against that. I’m sexually transgressive because I’m not going to stop telling you about all of the exciting ways that humans are having sex until you stop putting them in jail, stop withholding jobs, stop withholding resources, and stop withholding healthcare.
How has being a queer porn star changed your life? Being a queer porn star has enabled me to be public about the fact that I’m a sex worker.
Pitch your life as a reality tv show. My life as a reality show would take a lot of editing because for every overtly exciting moment that you see there are usually days of hours that have gone into making it. My life as a TV show honestly depicted would feature me sitting at my computer emailing, editing, and writing while drinking coffee or taking notes on a book that I’m reading. When I’m hanging out with other queer porn stars or sex workers or activists we’re usually just talking. Although I may spend more time of my life having sex, it still only accounts for a relatively small portion of my life. I certainly value it.
Dish about a hot exhibitionist experience: Just one? That’s a hard question for an exhibitionist. The hottest would be from when my partner and I were working in Haiti together and spent a night camping on a beach with a ton of other local Haitian and international activists for a big bonfire. My partner and I swam off into the ocean and off into the horizon there was a gorgeous lightening storm lighting up the sky, the water was still warmer than night air, and there water around us was bioluminescent. It was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen in my life and we fucked like rabbits in the water for a very long time.
What are your favorite sex toys? It’s cliche, but the Hitachi Magic Wand.
Tell us about your first QPTV scene. All of my favorite porn sets have been indie productions because the people involved aren’t doing it just because they’re OK with doing it, they’re doing it because they want to make it happen. Everyone in the room wants to be in the room and everyone in the room is a big part of making some awesome sex happen. Indie sets are dedicated to pleasure in a way that many of the bigger companies are not. As someone who is about to have sex in a room full of people, it makes a huge difference to me if the people around are hoping to make it the least negative it can be versus trying to make it the most awesome it can be. Indie sets like QueerPorn.TV are so incredibly respectful of sex and the people who have sex in their commitment to the range of possibilities for pleasure. That is something that has always seemed, to me, more respectful than only focusing on how horrible and negative sex can be and completely ignoring the positive good it creates in our lives.

So I’m always excited to walk onto an indie set from the start, but I was extra thrilled to be working with Maxine because my partner also does porn sometimes and he had recently worked with Maxine on another set. Some people get jealous, but I’m a huge perv and I definitely spent some quality time jerking off to my partner tell me all about the amazing hot scene they had together where everyone kept having sex even when the camera was off. Knowing that you’re working with a really great group of people and that your scene partner is someone who really loves some queer and kinky sex (and apparently some of the same moves in bed) is the recipe for some awesome fucking. In this scene I did something I had never done before: I got the sudden impulse to just start licking and sucking on Maxine’s shoes. I’m not a shoe fetishist and I’ve never before in my life felt the urge just to go for it. All of the sudden, I did feel that desire. She looked really good in those shoes and I wanted to have them in my mouth. I felt safe enough to do that and it was amazing. I don’t know if I’m ever going to have that kind of instant desire for a shoe ever again in my life, but I do hope that I keep having those moments because the only script for sex is desire.