I got footed for Queer Porn TV and I LOVED IT!
Name: Bianca Stone
Gender: female assigned
Location: Bay Area and traveling
Identities: genderqueer, spirit butch, femme bear, anti-Zionist, Jewish Occultist, mixed race white-brown girl.
What makes you queer and/or sexually transgressive?
The inability to keep my mouth shut when I want to kick my legs, flail my arms, and do what I want to do, and say what I want to say when it comes to how I want to fuck, love, and relate to people. As a queer femme who dates hetero cis-men in addition to a variety of genders, I sometimes carry a fucked up emotional burden of feeling like a traitor to “the queers”. Sometimes I actually get mistreated by other queers for this, but mostly, it is just in my head, but there for a reason. I’m no longer a queer separatist, or supremacist. I relate to being queer much differently than I did when I was younger. The world of BDSM, philosophy, theory, and spirituality, really challenged me to confront some of the identity structures of being queer that I used to cling to but didn’t really get me to where I wanted to be in my sexual lifestyle. As a queer femme with straight-passing privilege, I’ve had to make amends with living in between. Despite the emotional frustration I carry, and perceived mistreatment I get as a queer-femme, I realized I actually do have a lot of agency over my perceived queer-ness. Does any of this make sense? I don’t really know where this is going, but I plan to write more about it soon. Basically, to answer your question, what makes me sexually transgressive comes back to the old adage of “know thyself”, whether I’m operating within a mainstream social group or a radical queer subculture, I can see myself, honor my sexuality, and find that source of power and solace from within. How has being a queer porn star changed your life?
It definitely helped me overcome my “lesbian performance anxiety”! I didn’t get to explore queer sex as a youth. Being a queer porn role-model has lead me to confront deep and traumatic insecurities around enjoying queer sex and relinquishing internalized homophobia. When the camera is on, you gotta be confident, and I guess the Fake-It-Til-You-Make-It saying is true. A year after performing in queer-porn has given me a lot of healing and I don’t struggle as much with my insecurities being queer. I wish more queer and (q)urious people had safer spaces for exhibitionism to have loved ones, or trusted strangers, bear witness to their healing process and personal exploration through alternative ways of fucking and loving.
Pitch your life as a reality tv show.
Oh sheesh, I don’t know. My life is such a shit show sometimes! How about a show called “The Real World: Oaklandia”. A bunch of bohemian punks, queers, hookers, bike communists, anarchists, hipster straights, East Bay locals, hustlers, and anti-capitalist, wingnut-silly billies, get a warehouse together and make it a housing collective, run an underground venue, shoot porn on the building roof, and live as a chosen family dedicated to love, healing, and mutual aid in North West Oakland (some of the best 2 years of my life!).
Dish about a hot exhibitionist experience (a sex party, public sex, a wild time on set or with a client).
Ahhh, my exhibitionist days. The best I can come up with was role playing Marina Realness, an SF yuppie gal who likes to get defiled and ravished when she can escape the office. Marina got DP’ed on stage to a cheering live audience, with an encore of two hunky men pissing in her mouth after plugging both her holes.
What is your favorite sex toy?
Hitachi magic baby!! I’ve been able to projectile squirt from being rigged in pile driver with just a hitachi on my clit with no vaginal penetration. Amazing!
twitter username: @xBiancaStonex
Tell us about your QPTV scene(s.) What was special about the experience/performance/set-up? Did you live out any fetishes or fantasies? Tell an interesting behind the porn story.
I started a project called HairyKink a year ago and have yet to launch my video clips online. The project is very special to me, and one of the first scenes I shot was with a performer named J Bird Star. They were a great first model to shoot for my new project because they are so sweet, understanding, and wonderful! They gave me amazing creative insight and contributed lots of kinky ideas for the content we shot for HairyKink. J Bird is a real foot fetishsist who totally opened my world to the love of feet. When QPTv heard about J Bird’s foot love, and the good times we had on camera together, the opportunity to shoot a full foot fetish scene together sounded so incredibly hot and exciting. The sensation of feeling J Bird’s toes inside my cunt is a special moment I will never forget and grateful the experience was captured on camera.
