Queer Porn Tv Glossary of Terms
Some language used by the people on this site may be unfamiliar to you, or may be outmoded by the time you see it. This glossary is a general definition of terms, but many people choose different language to describe their own identities. If you’re curious about the language that people prefer, don’t take our word for it; ask them!
Cisgendered women and trans women often prefer she, her, her’s
Cisgendered men and trans men often prefer he, him, his
Genderqueer people and some trans people often prefer the gender neutral they, their, their’s, zir, hir, or, something else entirely. Most folks openly identifying is genderqueer wont be offended if you ask what pronouns they would prefer.
Bottom Surgery – Any number of proceedures meant to change the genitals of a trans person. Some, not all, trans-people elect to get genital reconstructive surgery to align their bodies with their identities.
Top Surgery – A bilateral mastectomythe removal of the breasts and the shaping of a male contoured chest. Some, not all, trans-people elect to get reconstructive surgery to augment their chest to align their bodies with their identities.
Genderqueer – Not identifying with either male or female gender, but neither, both, a cycle, or completely outside of any gender binary. A fluid gender identity that encompases all sexual orientations, physical sex, and may include a trans element of identity as well.
Squirt – female ejaculation, also referred to as gushing, femjaculate, cumming, ejaculate, jiz, and many other pet names. refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm.
Consent – Permission, approval, or agreement. Sexual consent refers to a person’s permission to another person or persons to engage in sexual acts. Consent is never implied and should never be assumed, even among people with an established sexual relationship.
Consensual “non-consent” fantasy: A common, yet controversial and minimally researched, fantasy role play involving physical or psychological aspects of force, coercion, molestation, or rape built on a foundation of established consent, desire, and pre-negotiation between partners. Can be referred to as “rape play,” “forced sex role play,” or sometimes in the BDSM community, “ravishment.” There is often an understanding between partners that words like “stop” or “no” are not the safe-words of the bottom, and that physical resistance or even fighting back may be part of the scene. This kind of role play can be confusing, or even triggering, to an outside viewer of a public role play or porn scene of this kind, since safe words, stop lights, and negotiations of consent are often discussed and agreed upon before the scene takes place. Disclaimer: Queer Porn TV has a very strong political and personal stance against the perpetration of rape culture. We consider fantasy images of non-consent to be powerful when explicitly negotiated between performers.
Puppy Play – Erotic fantasy role-play in which one or more people behave like a dog. Can involve a human BDSM version of the ownership, discipline and training involved in actual dog-human relationship. Can also be a chance to experience regressive primitive states.
Butch – (Noun) – Person of any gender or body who presents as, and/or identifies with the masculine. As an adjective, may describe behavior, style, or identity pertaining to masculinity. Note that masculinity means many different things to different people.
Femme– (Noun) – Person of any gender or body who presents as, and/or identifies with the feminine. As an adjective, may describe behavior, style, or identity pertraining to femininity. Note that femininity means many different things to different people.
Enema – Medical technique in which water is injected into the rectum through the anus. Used to clean the bowels before anal play. Can also be an erotic activity unto itself, as medical role-play, punishment of a submissive, or for the erotic potential of the deep stimulation of the ass.
Queer Porn – Porn that is directed and produced by queer people, depicting queer performers engaged in queer sex acts. Associated with, political consciousness, authenticity and artful independent production.
Pain slut – A person who experiences pleasure as a result of erotic pain (see masochist). More specifically someone who experiences pleasure from tests of their ability to endure long or intense exposure to erotic pain.